Chastity & Kink Forum

Here’s a comprehensive list of terms related to chastity play, along with brief explanations for each: Roles and Identities • Keyholder: A person who controls the key to the chastity device, symbolizing power and control. • Chaste: Someone wearing a chastity device or practicing chastity, either voluntarily or as part of a dynamic. • Submissive (Sub): A person who submits to being locked in chastity, often for their keyholder’s pleasure. • Dominant (Dom): The person enforcing chastity, often guiding the dynamic with rules and rewards. • Lockee: Another term for the person wearing the chastity device. • Switch: Someone who alternates between being locked and holding the key in chastity play. Chastity Devices • Chastity Cage: A device worn around the genitals to prevent sexual activity or erection. • Cock Cage: A term specifically referring to male chastity cages. • Belt: A full-coverage chastity device that includes straps around the waist and between the legs. • Plastic Cage: A lightweight, discreet option for long-term wear, often used for travel. • Metal Cage: A sturdy and durable option, often used for aesthetic or symbolic purposes. • Resin Cage: A high-tech, lightweight option often used for comfort and durability. • Custom Cage: A device made to fit the individual wearer perfectly. Keyholding and Control • Key: The physical or symbolic representation of control in a chastity dynamic. • Keyholder Agreement: Rules or terms set by the keyholder and lockee regarding chastity. • Key Safe: A secure box or device used to store the key, sometimes with a timer or lock code. • Remote Control Chastity: A dynamic where the keyholder exerts control remotely, sometimes with a Bluetooth-enabled device. • Emergency Key: A backup key held by the lockee for safety purposes, often sealed in tamper-proof packaging. Practices and Concepts • Locktober: A community event where participants stay locked in chastity for the entire month of October. • No-Nut November: A challenge tied to chastity play, involving refraining from orgasm for the month of November. • Cage-Free Day: A rare day when the lockee is allowed out of their cage, typically under the keyholder’s terms. • Erection Control: The act of managing and suppressing arousal or erections, often using a chastity device. • Ruined Orgasm: An orgasm where full pleasure is intentionally denied or limited, often used as part of chastity play. • Denial: The act of preventing the lockee from achieving orgasm, central to chastity dynamics. • Release: The moment when the lockee is unlocked, either temporarily or permanently. • Permanent Chastity: A commitment to long-term or indefinite chastity without release. Rules and Dynamics • Lock-Up: The act of putting on a chastity device and securing it with a lock. • Unlocking: The removal of the chastity device, often requiring the keyholder’s permission. • Punishment: Disciplinary action taken by the keyholder for rule-breaking, such as extended lock-up periods. • Reward: Positive reinforcement for good behavior, such as temporary release or other privileges. • Tease and Denial: Activities that stimulate the lockee while maintaining chastity and denying release. • Chastity Contract: A formal or informal agreement outlining the terms of the dynamic. Community and Events • Chastity Community: Groups or forums where people discuss experiences and share advice about chastity. • Chastity Play Party: A gathering where chastity enthusiasts can meet and engage in activities together. • Team Locked / Cage Club: An informal group or community for those who regularly wear chastity devices. Physical and Emotional Aspects • Chastity Training: The process of becoming accustomed to wearing a device and embracing the lifestyle. • Chastity Brain: A mental state of heightened focus on submission and control caused by prolonged denial. • Subspace: A deeply submissive mental state that can occur during chastity play. • Chastity Drop: The emotional low experienced after intense chastity play or release. • Blue Balls: A term for the discomfort caused by prolonged arousal and lack of release. Locks and Security • Padlock: A traditional lock used to secure the chastity device. • Integrated Lock: A built-in locking mechanism in the device, often more discreet. • Plastic Lock: A tamper-evident lock often used for travel or safety. • Numbered Tag: A plastic seal with a unique number, used for accountability in remote dynamics. • Timed Lock: A lock or safe with a timer to automatically unlock after a set period. Miscellaneous • Cage Rattle: The sound made by a metal cage when the wearer moves, often a point of humiliation or pride. • Humiliation Play: Incorporating elements of embarrassment or degradation into chastity dynamics. • Orgasm Control: The broader practice of managing a person’s orgasms, often tied to chastity play. • Sissy Chastity: Chastity play combined with feminization or sissy dynamics. • Puppy Chastity: Combining chastity with puppy play for enhanced submission. Are you ready to join Team Locked, find your perfect Chastity Cage Online

Official Puppy Pride Flag Roles and Identities • Alpha: The dominant leader in a puppy play dynamic; often guides and trains other pups. • Beta: A subordinate but experienced pup who supports the Alpha and often helps mentor Omegas. • Omega: A submissive pup, usually at the bottom of the pack hierarchy. • Handler: A person who cares for, trains, and controls the pup(s); acts as a master or caretaker in the dynamic. • Pup: A submissive person who takes on the role of a playful, obedient puppy. • Stray: A pup who does not have a pack or handler. • Pack: A group of pups and/or handlers who form a social or hierarchical family. • Switch Pup: A pup who alternates between dominant and submissive roles. Gear and Accessories • Pup Hood: A mask or hood worn to mimic a dog’s face, often used to get into headspace. • Collar: A band worn around the neck, symbolizing submission or ownership. • Leash: A tether used by handlers to control and guide their pups. • Paw Pads: Protective gloves or socks designed to look like dog paws. • Tail Plug: A tail attached to a butt plug, giving the pup a dog-like appearance. • Kneepads: Protective gear worn for crawling comfortably. • Muzzle: A device covering the mouth to limit speech or biting, enhancing a pup’s submissiveness. • Harness: Straps worn around the body, either decorative or functional, often used to symbolize control. • Chastity Cage: A device restricting genital access, reinforcing submission in some dynamics. Shop online for Pup Gear Behavior and Actions • Barking: A vocal expression to mimic dog sounds, often playful or submissive. • Nuzzling: Rubbing against someone affectionately, like a dog. • Begging: A submissive action, often performed to earn praise or rewards. • Heel: A command for the pup to walk closely beside their handler. • Play Space: An area designated for puppy play, often padded for safety. • Headspace: The psychological mindset a pup enters during play to feel more like a dog. • Marking: A pup claiming a spot, person, or object as their own (symbolically). • Training: Activities designed to reinforce desired behaviors, commands, or roles. Commands and Cues • Sit: Command for the pup to sit down. • Stay: Instruction for the pup to remain in place. • Fetch: A playful command where the pup retrieves an object. • Down: A command for the pup to lie down. • Speak: A prompt for the pup to bark or make noise. • Good Boy/Girl/Pup: Praise given to reward obedient behavior. • Bad Pup: A reprimand for undesirable actions. Headspace and Dynamics • Subspace: A deeply submissive state that some pups experience during play. • Handler Space: A focused and nurturing mindset handlers adopt while caring for pups. • Gearhead: A pup or handler who takes pride in their puppy play gear. • Breed: Refers to a pup’s personality type (e.g., playful like a Golden Retriever, loyal like a German Shepherd). • Pup Play Party: A gathering where pups and handlers engage in play together. Community and Events • Mosh: A social event where pups play, interact, and engage in activities together. • Puppy Pride Flag: A flag symbolizing the puppy play community; typically features black, blue, and white stripes with a red bone. • Titleholder: A pup or handler who has won a contest or title in the community, such as "International Puppy." Emotions and Connections • Pup Bond: The strong emotional connection between a handler and their pup(s). • Puppy Love: A playful term for affection or infatuation within the community. • Pup Drop: The emotional low that can occur after intense play or events, similar to sub-drop. Chastity SA is a friend of Pup Play South Africa, find out more about their online hub here: Puppy Play South Africa

I'm a guy, married, 54 years old. I have been interested in and experimenting with Male Chastity for over a decade now. Got my first cage back in 2012 and have never lost interest since. I believe Male Chastity is a team sport and my wife is the star player who holds my keys. She is also a proponent of long term orgasm denial which makes things all the more exciting.